Marriage is not the same for everyone. Each of these has different definitions and it is the responsibility of both the partners to carry out well. It is seen that long-term marriages are facing a lot of problems that lead to divorce or judicial separation. According to a few doctors, marriage is something that most of the couples today are not understanding. This is something that involves love, understanding, respect, and mutual consent. If any one of these is missing in marriage, the bonding is bound to suffer.
If anyone of you is not happy in the marriage, then the entire family falls apart. Therefore, it becomes the responsibility of both the couples to keep an eye of what exactly is going on between them. Talking to few couples, we even came to know that there are few women who can feel the slightest changes in their husbands whereas the same thing happens to some men. This is what exactly we call is bonding. The inner strength will tell you if everything is alright. Sexual relationship plays the most vital role in any marital relationship. It is the base of marriage. If this goes well a lot of other problems get sorted at ease.
Today we will be talking about a few things that we should keep in mind while getting into marriage.
You must know that it is necessary to balance in marriage but it is absolutely not the perfect balance. One of the partners has to take a bit more initiative than the other.
Don't fall in too much love and merge your bank accounts of personal expenses. Have something of your own. Share it with your partner. There is nothing to keep secret.
Don't be a messy individual. Arrange your finances. Help your partner in arranging the house and attending the guests especially right after the marriage.
If you are staying with your in-laws, respect them. Talk to them on regular basis. Spend some quality time with them. It is for both the man and woman.
Make sure that you married a human being and not a substance. Don't exploit him for materialistic pleasures. For men, never treat women badly and make her feel that all she has with her is her body.
Use your words cautiously. Once you have said something cannot be returned. You cannot just hurt someone just because you are not getting what you need.
Be a bit brave. Take initiative.
Be a team player. Act like you are managing the team together.
Know that there is no perfect marriage. You have to accept it with flaws.
Play with the strengths and not the weaknesses.
Enjoy the journey of the marriage.
Take care of yourself first. If you are not fine you cannot take care of others.
If you have any doubts talk to your partner. If there are any discrepancies, try to sort it out if possible.
Never compare your relationship with others. Each relationship is different.